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A friend said to me, “Now your world is free from Bitchassness”.

This made me wonder, what the world would be like without Bitchassness. I’ve heard the term before on the MTV show Making the Band, however before diving  into it on a deeper level, I had to make sure my knowledge of the origins of the term ‘Bitchassness’ was accurate.  According to Urban Dictionary. The term was originated by recording artist Diddy aka Sean John Combs aka Puff Daddy aka P.Diddy.

Symptoms include: thinking you’re better than those around you, not speaking your true feelings, throwing large amounts of shade.

Check out Diddy’s Bitchassness Alert Level Orange Video. It’s hysterical but so REAL at the same time! Looks blurry but it’s really not. Goes to show how long ago this video was made, that’s for sure.

So bottom line, what it all boils down to is fear. Fear is the main virus out here killing us. It’s a virus that kills dreams and stops us from becoming GREAT.

The government is run on bitchassness

Proper laws are not enforced  because of bitchassness

Homeless people are on the street because of bitchassness

Babies are parentless because of bitchassness

Black men in America are dying because of bitchassness

Terrorists are attacking because of bitchassness

Roads in my dad’s Nigerian Arondizuogu village are not maintained because of bitchassness

AIDS in Africa is thriving because of bitchassness

Children are committing suicide because of bitchassness

Then my mind took me off on a tangent. I wondered if there was no bitchassness what would replace it. Faith?

According to Merriam-Webster dictionary, faith is defined as:

• :strong belief or trust in someone or something

• : belief in the existence of God : strong religious feelings or beliefs

• : a system of religious belief

To me the words that pop out are trust, belief, strong, and God

Imagine a world completely full of faith through our own Godliness and no fear. What then would motivate one to be great?

To want to change something or have an impact

To want to push harder  because society’s bitchassness said you couldn’t

To want to unite people as one and protest

To create art that makes people think outside the box

To experience a bitchassness moment,

write a piece inspired by that moment,

and inspire someone else.

To have faith in self and want to be great through that piece.

Like my works of art, everything comes full circle. Without fear there would be no faith. Without bitchassness there would be no greatness. The reality is faith (trust, belief, strength, God) removes the fear and allows us to be great. If you haven’t gained anything from this post at least take the title with you. Oh! And that damn rabbit too.

FEAR is to BITCHASSNESS as FAITH is to GREATNESS

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Her body is a jewel.

She’s a queen.

Her walk is hella mean.

But when her girls find out her secret

She develops low self-esteem.

They ask why…

Liz: Why you ain’t let him hit it? If I was you, I would’ve been did it?

Mya: Why you waiting til marriage?

Tish: (Laughing) Why — you afraid if you do something you gon get stuck pushing a carriage?

Damn, girl, you don’t know what you missin, just so u know we advisin’ we ain’t dissin’.”

Liz: You need some adventure in your life, you ain’t gotta wait until you become his wife.

Tish: You already been with 1 guy, give a couple others a try.

She sits back and takes a long sigh.

Wondering how they find pleasure in giving their precious bodies to more than 1 guy.

She gazes into the sky as a couple years pass by…

It’s ladies night out…

They all seem to be putting on a pout.

She listens to hear what they’re raving and carrying on about …

Their miserable relationships,

Crying about their love life with their hands on their hips.

Tisha is on her 7th kid,

But she’s going on about what her 5th baby’s daddy did.

Mya can’t seem to find that fire,

The passion — that feeling of REAL love and desire.

Liz just doesn’t think there is such a thing as a good man —

Her dude gave her an STD and ran.

Liz: I don’t know what to do. Hey, chick, u sittn’ over there quiet as hell. What you got to tell?

She takes a long sip of her champagne before she works her way in…

“Well, what do I know. My man and I are 10 years strong.”

They all gasp and one asks,

“Damn, girl, what you doing for him to hold on that long?”

She replies, “Everything y’all been there and done… and sum.

Actually, it’s about that time gotta jet,

We ain’t finish “blessn” every room in the house yet.

Think tonight is the kitchen…

O and just so u know b/f hand, I’m just advisin’ I’m not dissin’…

My man tells me everyday my body is precious.

He has pride in wearing me as his jewel and says I’m his Nubian queen.”

As she walks away one of the girls say, “I wonder what her secret is, Liz?”

Liz: What, u slow u didn’t get the message? –Everything we did and sum. What, you dumb? Basically she’s saying we reap what we sow.

Mya: In simpler terms: you’re a hoe!

Tisha: Oh.

Liz: She’s saying we need to treat ourselves the way we want to be treated.

If we respect ourselves first. The men we attract won’t treat us like dirt.

And we wouldn’t be here crying our eyes out bout how much we hurt.

We lacked self-respect.

As a result we received heartache and neglect.

As they were leavn, Mya said, “Did u see the way she walked off the scene?”

Tisha: Yea, her walk is hella mean.

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